Nidhi's Equanimous World

"Imperfection is beauty!" Great lines said by MARYLIN MONROE. And yes many people acknowledge what she said, but to what extent ? Expectations drive people! From "expecting from others" to "being the one others expect from", life goes on. But isn't that true that these expectations are the grounds of disappointments ? People expect you to be the perfect version in every wing. "Imperfection is beauty", "Imperfection makes us worthy", "Imperfection isn't vulnerability" - these all fit for people who are already successful and are a big deal in life. This doesn't apply to folks and commonage. Because from the core of people's life i.e. their home, they're expected to be flawless....LITERALLY FLAWLESS. You make a mistake - you're unworthy. You have to be just perfect in all aspects of your life. One might wonder, Is it even a humanly beleif ? Well, i would say it is very much robotic. Because robots are sup...

Lately I've been thinking a lot about my childhood, when life was simpler and happier. And when I give it a thought, I realised what made it that way..was my tendency to be in the moment and see things as they were(without complicating). And now as I'm growing older, each day I have more expectations, ambitions, responsibilities..and I prefer to see what I want to see and not the truth. It messes with my brain, makes me feel like I'm in a dilemma. So I'm having a hard time with accepting the decisions I've already made and with making the new ones. I believed that I was sure about what I want but I am not anymore. And right now as I'm mulling over this, I'm realising that maybe all this time I've been lying to myself. Maybe deep down I know what I want, but having difficulty envisaging it. And why not.....,because sometimes we keep lying to ourselves just because we're too afraid to discover the truth . And it is the hardest thing. So I guess I need ...

Hopefully at some point of time in life, we all have thought about meeting the perfect prince charming who would dazzle us by his charming smile, mesmerize us with his sparkling eyes, with whom there would be no worries and just living happily ever after....🌹 But don't they say "Fairy tales are not real." Well I disagree! We just need to look at it from the right angle. Why depending on somebody else to bring you happiness ever after? Why not be your own prince charming and write your own fairy tale? Because trust me, once you begin giving you all the happiness you deserve, everyday will seem like a FAIRY TALE!💫 GO, BE YOUR OWN PRINCE CHARMING ON A WHITE HORSE! With love, NDS❤️

The future that we plan and think so much of, When it actually comes, we start dwelling on the past. What we craved for so long, We get it and again....we dwell on the past. Worked hard for something and achieved it, Happy for few moments and here we're again....dwelling on the past. What could be the explanation....Human behaviour? Wanting to go back? Possible the impossible? Well, what if I say, it's not that complicated! JUST BE IN THE MOMENT AND LIVE IT! Because in life's constant race, we miss the small things for the sake of capturing the bigger ones. So let's start today and DO NOT LET ANY MOMENT SLIP BY! Xoxo

There are days in our life when we feel like giving-up, stop trying and loosing hope.  But, instead we should hold onto ourselves and remember why we started in the first place. Success doesn't come easily to everyone.  The harder we work and wait for it, the longer it stays! So instead of giving up during hard times, I say to myself  "I am not afraid to be covered in wounds, because I know, once I pull through all these scars, all that awaits me - is SUCCESS."

Here's one of my personal experiences of self-realization : I'd like to talk about the film CATWOMAN (2004) starring Halle Berry. Some of you might not have watched it, but you'll eventually understand my thoughts as you proceed. I saw this movie for the first time in 2012 when I was 15 years old. Although I liked it but I wasn't satisfied with the ending. Because the protagonist gives up the opportunity to unite with the hero, and chooses freedom. In my opinion then as a teenager, I hoped to watch the woman cherish the love of her man and the couple getting hitched. So, it wasn't a happy ending for me. The reminiscence of this film was long covered by many other memories until yesterday, when I watched the same film again after 9 years. And I observed the protagonist choosing independence, solitude and freedom over inter-dependence, couple life and love.  But then I thought to myself, she did choose love......... SELF-LOVE.💚 ♡  Love, which made her embrace her ...

When someone's flaw is revealed in front of you; before delivering another critical comment, think, Do you also possess the same flaw? - If YES, then improve yourself first. - If NO, then help others to improve. Criticizing others is the easiest path,  but that never adds value to yourself or reduce the value of others. So, choose the higher path of ACCEPTANCE AND HELP.😌 - NDS